Mum, it's your story too

In a survey with 4000 people who identify as mums, it became clear that a majority of them felt that they weren’t a part of their own story. It’s time to change the narrative!

Make a photo book

For too long, mums have captured moments from behind the lens, shouldering the responsibility of telling the family story alone. 

This summer, we’re making a change, we’re getting all mums in the picture. Join us in celebrating mum’s irreplaceable presence with a challenge for everyone who is a mum, has a mum, or knows a mum.

It’s time to get mums everywhere in the picture and make sure they’re part of their own story!

A contract for mom and her partner

Mum, do you want to be part of your family’s story? Sign here!

Ever scrolled through your phone, realizing you’re not in any of your photos? It may not seem very important now, but there will come a time when you flip through your photo books and regret not being part of the photos!

Check out our contract and send it to anyone who needs a little push, a push to get in the picture themselves or a push to take the shot of a mum they love!

Download the contract

We can’t help but wonder what happens to our memories in the long run, when mums aren’t in photos.

A contract for mom and her partner

I don't want to be the mum who, later in life, is trying to find herself in the photos. I want to remember being in the moments, and having it documented!

- A Once Upon mum

A mom holding a photo book with the title "It's my story too"
A mom holding a photo book with the title "It's my story too"

Your new Mumifesto!

Not quite ready to sign a full blown contract? Maybe a summer Mumifesto is more for you. Repeat this over and over until you believe it: This summer I am not the only one responsible for documenting and creating my family’s story. I always say yes to having my photo taken and often pass the camera to someone else.

Five things to live by this summer:

1

Get in the picture

2

Let people take my photo

3

Ask people to take my picture

4

Do not delete any photos

5

Focus on the feeling in the photo, not what I look like

Why you should think twice about deleting photos this summer

Often when looking at recent photos of ourselves, we can be pretty critical of what we see. Yet, with time, a shift happens and the way we look in the picture becomes much less important – because of the memory the photo holds. So, next time you're tempted to delete a photo because of how you look, don’t. Instead, cherish the memory and add it to your photo book. It will be worth it, we promise!

Save all your photos
A gif of a mom and her child and different negative comments on the photo
Text explaining how you might feel about the picture when the photo is taken
Text explaining how you might feel about the picture after 1, 2 or 5 years
Mom looking at the same photo she once did not like
Text explaining how you might feel about the picture after 1, 10 or 15 years
Text explaining how you might feel about the picture after 25 years
Mom looking in the same photo book and at the same picture
Text with a quote from a Once Upon mom saying she does not want to be searching for herself in the photos

It’s time to co-create

Hopefully, mums everywhere will finally be stars of the show this summer. All your loved ones have taken all these awesome photos of you. And now you’re wondering, how do I get them into my photo book? The answer is easy: co-create. Invite as many people you want to your book and ask them to simply upload the photos into it. 

How to co-create
Illustration of people wanting to co-create their photo book
A woman with a cap on that has the text "Take her picture" on it
A woman with a cap on that has the text "Take her picture" on it

Take her picture!

More than every other mum feels like there’s not enough photos of them with their children. So if you are a mum, know a mum, have a mum: take her picture. Don’t hesitate, don’t think twice, just do it. As a reminder, we’ve created a “take her picture”-cap. Want a cap of your own? Head on over to our Instagram and join our summer competition to win one for you and a friend.

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I seriously think it has to do with mothers still taking on more responsibility for everything family-related. I think a lot of men still need to step up.

- A Once Uponer

Two women lauging
Two women lauging

The Power of Embracing Life's Imperfect Moments

In a world obsessed with perfection, where every image is meticulously staged, edited, and filtered, the true essence of a memory can sometimes be lost. Because often, the imperfect photos, make the happiest memories to reflect on, and play a big role in holding our loved ones close and keeping their memories alive.

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